Whatever mistake you made , knowing how to say sorry with sincerity is the first step in repairing your relationship and getting things back on track. Obviously some mistakes are bigger than others and can't be easily forgiven, no matter how much you want to say sorry. But on those other occasions when you messed up unintentionally, saying you're sorry should always be done in a kind and thoughtful way. Here are some tips on how to say sorry to your wife or husband.
1. Don't blame your spouse for how you behaved. Take responsibility for the things that you said and did that were hurtful. Don't try to defend yourself or justify the situation or your action.
2.Including a statement of regret such as" i know I've hurt your feelings" or "I'm so sorry for that" along with a promise that it won't happen again are important to rebuilding the relationship and are key ingredients to any apology . After all, there is no value in apologizing for something that you will do again and again.
3.Use words and phrases that sound like words you would actually use . Don't try to be someone else when you apologize for your blunder. Being fake is the worst way to say sorry.
4.If you are writing a note to say sorry to your wife or husband , put some thought into your writing materials. A handwritten card is far more personal and sincere than a message sent by text or email.
5. Let go of your expectation for how your spouse will react when you say you are sorry. He or she may need time to let your apology sink in. Forgiveness may not be granted right away. Give your partner the space he or she needs to process what happened.
